Every week Ivan is joined by Clinical Psychotherapist Stephanie Regan for our weekly relationship slot. This week Stephanie advises a listener who wrote into thehardshoulder@newstalk.com. 

The Listener explains how after visiting the family home of her current partner for the first time she realized that she had previously been on a Tinder date with her partners dad and is struggling to decide if she should tell her partner or keep it a secrete.

ILLUSTRATION - Auf einem Smartphone ist am 18.02.2014 in Stuttgart (Baden-Württemberg) das Logo der App Tinder zu sehen. Photo by: Franziska Kraufmann/picture-alliance/dpa/AP Images