Being asked to be a bridesmaid or groomsman is a huge honour, but it can also come with a big financial, emotional and time commitment. For some, especially those who've done it more than once, saying "yes" isn't always an easy decision.

So, is it okay to say no when a loved one asks you to be part of their big day? Have you ever turned down a place in a bridal party? If so, why, and did it affect your relationship?

Joining Andrea to discuss is Sarah-Jayne Tobin from DMG Media, Wedding Planner Lindsay Moynagh and Humanist Wedding Celebrant, Ruth Scott.