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Bobby kicked into gear this week with the curious case of Juli Briskman and the one-fingered salute seen round the world.
A 50-year-old marketing executive from Virginia; Briskman lost her job on Monday after an image of her throwing up her middle finger at US President Donald Trump’s motorcade went viral.
Regardless of your political stance, the saga highlights some interesting points about social media and policy for its use among employees.
“The thing is, the photograph was one thing - but she decided to put the image up on Facebook and Twitter herself,” says Bobby.
Ms Briskman worked for a company called Akima LLC - a donor to the Trump campaign - and was told that she had breached company social media guidelines while potentially jeopardising current government contract bids.
“As you and I know, the workplace and the home-place are becoming a very blurred landscape at this stage,” says Bobby.
“You need be really careful about this.
“Companies should have a social media policy and the policy really needs to state exactly what you are allowed to do when you are using company technology.
“Most social media policies will have a catch-all that if you bring the company into disrepute, however you do it, you will be fired.”
In the workplace there are times when you need to stand up and take the bull by the horns - and the worry for this listener is that he may have already let his window of opportunity pass.
"I think he made a big mistake by not nailing it down when they needed him to take the position," says Bobby.
"They offered him a promise four months ago that there has been no discussion on since?
“I think it is really odd that he hasn't brought it up.”
For Bobby, talking to your family about an issue they can’t help you with is a waste of time - while the real conversation is left unspoken.
"I would say go back to the boss, say, 'this is what you promised' - and if he is not going to deliver on it, you need to start looking elsewhere," he says.
“I think on a point of detail, the HR manager is probably right in saying that it is not her job to sort out the engineering and the minutiae of their work,” says Bobby.
“She obviously has been given a job to downsize and to tell people that their roles are redundant or whatever - and she is doing that.”
Bobby’s advice for this listener is to take their concerns to their line manager - or someone who is familiar with the day-to-day details of the job - and if that gets them nowhere, it is time to look elsewhere.
“If you feel that you are stressed and if it is affecting you, that you should get yourself into a position where you have some options,” says Bobby.
“I would be saying to him - even if he doesn't decide to leave - put himself into a place where he isn't in a place that he can't decide to leave.
“Create a few options for yourself and I think you'll find even if you do decide to stay, you will be in a better place.”
“This is a horrific story,” says Bobby. “I would suggest that it is very, very bad practice here by the employer.”
“Thank god that there was not an accident because I think you might find that the employer - having not communicated that to the employee - could be in very, very sticky territory.”
The advice is simple, it is time for this listener to confront his employer about what has happened - and get his wife reinstated on the policy as soon as possible.
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